Why is it so hard for people to love someone else who is hurting them and lashing out in pain. When were all born and go through life, we come up with how we react to things. To some its to cry, others run away.......but some of us, tend to fly off the handle and attack the source of the pain....i.e, YOU!!! the jerk that just stepped on my feelings. Doesn't mean you deserve it, doesn't mean you intended on hurting me. But that doesn't change the fact that I'm still out of control. Now I'm sure its really easy for the self-righteous out there to tell me how to just "not do that." But tell me how any of you control your "instinct's"? you don't.......that's why they are called instincts....you react before you get a chance to think. and like i said, some of us react instinctively.....in different ways. NOW the reason for my babbling is this. Don't i deserve someone to reach out save me. I mean when people are drowning.....some people fight off rescuers...does that mean you should let them drown?
but it's not easy to find someone that can deny yourself, endure the attack.....and still save someone else who's lashing out..
too bad, huh?
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i'm a fixer how can I help?
dude this is deep stuff...then you take a look at my blog and i don't talk about anything serious...
lol.......im not deep always, and your not silly always. but we have our times. this is one of those for me.
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